Realizing that anal sex may result in extreme pleasure peaks, both for those who stick as for those who are stuck, heterosexual men learned that the desire to brave the mysteries of an ass does not make them gay – unless, of course, that this desire is directed exclusively to other men, which is no offense.

And women noted that “your ass” is not offense (pardon the word), on the contrary: it may be more advisable and more addictive than abandon the vagina, mammoth potential area in the hands of those who can not use!

Other straight men, of his own sexuality insurance, still ask for the partner “play” around the most idolized ring that the One Ring of the franchise The Senhos of the Rings, knowing that it will not affect one iota their desire for them – after all even taking on the butt, are they who are working, but this is talk for another article.

To be gouine * and have suffered the shame in admitting dying of curiosity to try anal sex, not to mention the enormous prejudice, fear of pain and stupid idea that being passive in the process diminish my masculinity – which is only machismo subjective and stupid – assembled this list of 5 reasons to lose the fear and give or receive pleasure through the anus. Because, as is safe and consensual, almost anything goes!

* Gouine is the name given to those who practice gouinage, non-penetrative sex.

1. Experience applies to everything in life

Not only for anal sex, try things that life back is good for defining what we like or not! Of course topics as sexuality, for example, naturally comes the almost absolute majority of cases.

Behavioral precepts – especially the sexual form of a sexist society that preaches that the only way to get pleasure by coming and out-selfish, where man is the main beneficiary to exclude the existence of a partner (or partners), and which accepts only the enjoyment and ultimate goal and undeniable pleasure – they are built over time.

If you have any questions or curiosity, try it. No one need know. Sex is yours with the (s) person (s) involved (s), so choose well who try and expand your mind. This goes for new dishes, places and sensations.

2. Do not be ashamed

One of the greatest fears of those who want to try anal sex as a bottom (a) is “go check.” This expression is a mild way of saying “let poop pieces leave the ass during penetration.”

Know that a person willing to have anal sex is more than prepared for this kind of situation. Of course sanitize the straight and do the famous “chuca” is displayed – not often, because it reduces the amount of good bacteria for the body – but this fear can not paralyze you!

Tell your partner (or your partner, why not?) You are still learning and that is not attuned to every morning. The person will have all the world’s patience to teach you;) – If not, go have sex with someone who has, because selfish people in bed (or in the bathroom, kitchen floor, balcony etc.) is a pain in the ass and not worth the effort.

3. Your sexuality does not change because of anal sex

Heterosexual men mask the desire to have anal sex on a woman for fear that they feel that they would like most is to have sex with men. Guys, what defines a person being gay is predominantly she likes someone else of the same gender sex! A heterosexual guy will feel gay for wanting to relate to a woman, anyway? This math is wrong, sorry…

4. Being passive does not diminish you

For woman: give your butt does not make you piranhuda or indecent! Give your butt is to use a part of your body to receive and give pleasure to those who are sexually involved with you. Forget precepts that anal sex is sinful or just call girl gives a defendant in kibe! Women need to understand that they have the SAME right to pleasure men, who CAN be sexual and MUST be respected for it! Enough of being inflatable doll to grown man. It’s time to explore their sexuality with honesty to their innermost desires!

For men: being passive does not affect masculinity! Real, if you still guide the “conservation of manhood” dispose of the idea that need to prove to anyone. How tired to speak, our society is sexist, extremely judgmental and even if you walk on all lines, she’ll find something to hit it in the face and call you immoral. You want to give his ass? In! There is no harm in wishing it! No harm in enrustir a desire that no one needs to know for fear of their own judgment. Since I am cool, I recommend you watch my video “Get out of the closet, male” to unlock your quadradinha mind.

5. Pleasure is all good!

As is safe, with respect and consensus, sex is wonderful! Pleasure is too great, no doubt! Undress moral armor that make their guilty pleasures and realize that you DESERVE to enjoy, be happy, and no one has shit to do with it!

Make a cool anal sex is not only “thing fagot!” It is something of a human being confident, who knows what they want? And who do not know, try it! Sexuality is inherent and should be explored with awareness, patience and without taboos. We are the victims of two clashing contrasts: the hiperssexualização by the media and the thoughtless castration for failed and / or religious social concepts. If you do not think for ourselves, clarifying doubts and preconceptions, we will be crazy!

Know your limits, respect the life of each one and only goal his nose (pinto, mouth, pepeca etc) which is called! The same goes if you do not like sex and do not want to get involved with anyone, as a good asexual! And if you have no one to begin practice, start masturbating. There is absolutely nothing wrong with that 🙂